Rehtaeh Parsons and the Bully Harper

It's hard to imagine a worse horror story.

A young woman is sexually assaulted, and publicly humiliated.

Her school does nothing. A  police investigation goes nowhere.

Then she is bullied, and then she kills herself.

But still it gets worse. Because now there are vigilantes, and calls for mob justice. And Stephen Harper is using all that to try to cover-up one horror with another. Trying to play up the crime, and downplay the bullying.

The prime minister said what Rehtaeh claims happened to her goes beyond bullying. "I think we've got to stop using just the term bullying to describe some of these things. Bullying to me has a kind of connotation … of kids misbehaving.

What we are dealing with in some of these circumstances is simply criminal activity. It is youth criminal activity, it is violent criminal activity, it is sexual criminal activity and it is often internet criminal activity," said Harper.
As if bullying was just "kids misbehaving." As if it wasn't bullying that killed Rehtaeh.

The cruelty, the public humiliation.

The relentless bullying she couldn't escape...

“She was never left alone. Her friends turned against her, people harassed her, boys she didn’t know started texting her and Facebooking asking her to have sex with them since she had had sex with their friends. It just never stopped...”

Anyone who doesn't understand that, either can't remember what it was like to be young. Or went to school before they invented the internet.

But of course, that's not what Stephen Harper, the worst bully this country has ever known, wants you to believe. Because him and his foul Cons would rather not remind Canadians how they recently killed a plan for a national anti-bullying strategy.

Votes from a handful of Conservative backbenchers weren’t enough to push through an NDP proposal to strike an all-party committee to study and craft a national anti-bullying strategy.

Just to pleasure their rabid religious base, who fear that anti-bullying programs will stop them from abusing gay kids.

Even though so many Canadian children are being bullied to death...
Even though national anti-bullying programs have proved effective in helping to save the lives of young people in other countries. Where there are governments willing to tackle the problem, and know that only EDUCATION can solve it.
Unlike the Harper Cons who would use this tragedy to push their fascist law and order agenda. And would rather spend millions on their fraudulent Porky Action Plan ads, than create a national ad campaign aimed at saving the lives of Canadian kids.

Oh well. I've been fighting bullies on this blog for eight years, and before that I fought them in school. And this latest tragedy will only motivate me to fight them and the bully Cons even harder.

Rehtaeh Parsons, Amanda Todd deaths share shocking similarities

 
Amanda Todd and Rehtaeh Parsons lived on opposite ends of the country. They had never met, but sadly, had so much in common.

Both teens were bullied. Both were assaulted and exploited through social media.

They both committed suicide: Parsons last month in Nova Scotia, Todd last year in British Columbia.
Their stories have attracted international attention and touched those who’ve heard them.
They’ve also left many scratching their heads wondering how something like that could happen, not just once but twice.
But, if you talk to experts familiar with their struggles, they’re clear: It’s not a matter of “if” this will happen again, but “when.”
Corina Morrison and Megan Walker know all to well how easily something similar could play out here.
Amanda Todd Inset

“We are losing too many kids,” said Morrison, co-founder of the London Anti-Bullying Coalition. “We are missing something as a society, whether it is empathy, respect, fear of consequences, I am not sure. But we are really missing something.”
Morrison and Walker, executive director of the London Abused Women’s Centre, said men must step up to the plate and end the cycle of violence towards women — young and old.
“We know one in three women will experience sexual assault and rape, and fewer than 10 per cent will report it to police,” Walker said. “We need to start teaching boys at a very young age that being masculine means you are able to convey empathy, compassion and sensitivity.”